Who names conflict

I really enjoyed the conversation on who names conflict. Who decides if someone is in a conflict. Are there any are arching themes of conflict. The dictionary gives a vague meaning of the word, to fight disagree, opposition. People made have different ideas of what it means to disagree. For some there might need to be violent aspect for them to label it as conflict. For other just having a different opinion might be enough to call it a conflict.

If in class we were have trouble deciding weather some was a conflict or not. I think it is clear that there is a bunch of politic between labeling things has conflict or not. But after that it is hard to differentiate what is a conflict and what is not. Or who is in conflict. A lot of time outsider make up the conflict that surrounds men and women. Women or work and have children are they really in a struggle. Why can a women be both an employee and mother and be good at both. T.V always make it seem that there is such a struggle between choice to do one over the other.
One could argue that conflict could be built up around men to. I am drawling blank on an example. I feel like there are something that people just expect us to be in conflict about and others they ignore.